So you've made it clear you aren't interested in me, that you see me as a friend at best. That's fine, it's your decision and I'll respect that. However, there are some things I think you should know.
1. That guy who treats you like shit, the one who yells at you, threatens you, calls you a slut in public and so on. Sure, he provides you with all the drama you need right now, but if you think you can change him, you're making a mistake. He isn't going to change, and when you're 35, nursing a couple of his kids and hiding in a refuge somewhere, you'll realise that.
2. That married guy over there, the one that you're following around because you're "so much cuter" than his wife. Well, you might be cuter than her, and you might convince him to leave her for you. But just remember, if he can leave her for someone hotter, he can do the same to you when you're 35 and some other 20-something woman starts chasing him around. Is this what you really want?
3. The guy with the really expensive car, who tells you all about his huge mantion. Well, he may have all those things, but unless he's a trust fund kiddie, he's either married to his job, or (more likely) he's got a huge debt for those things that he can't service forever. Again, if he's trying to use his money to impress you, he'll be doing the same to some other 20-something woman when you're 35.
As I said, it's your decision if you pursue these guys regardless, but when you make that decision, I'll either turn my attention to another woman or simply build a good single life for myself, which will allow me to fuck a hooker or two should I ever get desperate, or maybe I'll just go overseas and find someone else who appreciates my qualities. Either way, when you're 35, divorced with a couple of someone else's kids hanging around, don't expect me to rush to your side and pick up the tab. I'm happy to treat you with respect, but I really do have other options if you decide that isn't what you want.
1. That guy who treats you like shit, the one who yells at you, threatens you, calls you a slut in public and so on. Sure, he provides you with all the drama you need right now, but if you think you can change him, you're making a mistake. He isn't going to change, and when you're 35, nursing a couple of his kids and hiding in a refuge somewhere, you'll realise that.
2. That married guy over there, the one that you're following around because you're "so much cuter" than his wife. Well, you might be cuter than her, and you might convince him to leave her for you. But just remember, if he can leave her for someone hotter, he can do the same to you when you're 35 and some other 20-something woman starts chasing him around. Is this what you really want?
3. The guy with the really expensive car, who tells you all about his huge mantion. Well, he may have all those things, but unless he's a trust fund kiddie, he's either married to his job, or (more likely) he's got a huge debt for those things that he can't service forever. Again, if he's trying to use his money to impress you, he'll be doing the same to some other 20-something woman when you're 35.
As I said, it's your decision if you pursue these guys regardless, but when you make that decision, I'll either turn my attention to another woman or simply build a good single life for myself, which will allow me to fuck a hooker or two should I ever get desperate, or maybe I'll just go overseas and find someone else who appreciates my qualities. Either way, when you're 35, divorced with a couple of someone else's kids hanging around, don't expect me to rush to your side and pick up the tab. I'm happy to treat you with respect, but I really do have other options if you decide that isn't what you want.