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The Other Woman

Love Child

Love Child

One Love
http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/staticslideshowoprah.aspx?cp-documentid=20900791

In my 20s, I was involved with a married man, and it is one of my greatest regrets. I later found out that the married man also had another "other woman." It is such a powerless position to be in. I don't have a whole lot of regrets in my life, but I regret it because of how pathetic it made me as a woman. I regret it not only because I was pathetic, but because of what I did to his wife. I didn't think about his wife, I believed what he was telling me, I believed the lies that he was telling me about her. I look back at that time in my life and feel not that he was responsible in any way, because I always had the choice.
~Oprah
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Of course, because no husband is going to say, "My wife is really beautiful, and she's really good to me, and things are really going well at home, and everything's lovely. I'm just using you." Which is the truth. ~Oprah
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Michelle says she's happy with her situation, but Dr. Callahan says these "toxic relationships" can damage a woman's self-worth. "It makes you less powerful," she says. "You have the power to change it. You made the choice to get into it, and you can make the choice to get out."
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What can I possibly say to the woman who has aided in the demise of my life? I wish I could stand in front of you to voice these thoughts so you could see the real person in me, the real tears that fall, and the real pain I have endured. … As a woman, I can't possibly understand how you are comfortable with completely tearing apart our family. If your relationship with a married man is all you've ever dreamt for yourself, then you haven't set your aspirations high enough. You are worth more than a man who would leave his entire family and his entire life.
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If nothing seems to make your man faithful, don't blame yourself. "If you're already doing that and you end up with a man who is a serial cheater, then maybe it's time to think about moving on," Oprah says. "It's really all on him."
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I don't see any problem with that as long as the spouse is like-minded.

On the other hand, if the spouse was unaware of that boundary-less lifestyle on the side, that's just acting like a sneaky, selfish whore.
 
Why? Do you think she's a sneaky, selfish whore?


I can see by Dirk's pos karma, that's he's hopeful and maybe planning a little visit himself.
 
I think if you're married you should take your spouse's feelings into consideration: like you said.

If it's an open marriage then that's fine. If not, then maybe you shouldn't be married.

But what do I know? I'm divorced LOL
 
An 'open marriage' is an oxymoron. If you plan on sleeping around, don't get married in the first place.
 
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So Starguard posted something good? COOL!! I like that pic a lot too!! I wish that would happen with me and my girlfriend!! :P
 
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