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7 Years Ago

I know it well. 11 years ago (This past January) I said "I Do" and 1 year ago (Next month) I said "I don't". Today is really your anniversary?
 
Yes, and the official I don't date is in one month. I was trying to get them on the same day. :P
I was emotional about it this weekend, but today I was ok. I mean I'm totally glad to be where I am, but sometimes I still get sad thinking about "what could have been" I suppose. I am much better off, I think at times I am still resentful at him tho. I allow myself to feel w/e feelings I have to, but not dwell on it.
 
That can last for quite some time.

You had the courage to do it and move forward tho.

I was proud of you then, and I'm proud of you now!
 
I had alot of support from friends, Jeff being one of them, man those were tough times. And look at the nice bitch I turned out to be, eh DL? ;)
 
Mirah said:
I had alot of support from friends, Jeff being one of them, man those were tough times. And look at the nice bitch I turned out to be, eh DL? ;)
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I wouldn't have you any other way darlin.

Can't have the sweet without the sour, can't have the pleasure without the pain!
 
Mirah said:
Yes, and the official I don't date is in one month.
I was trying to get them on the same day. :P
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I wish I could have done that. :) So, this "I don't date" is from the finalizing of the divorce or the separation?

Mirah said:
I was emotional about it this weekend, but today I was ok. I mean I'm totally glad to be where I am, but sometimes I still get sad thinking about "what could have been" I suppose. I am much better off, I think at times I am still resentful at him tho. I allow myself to feel w/e feelings I have to, but not dwell on it.
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I know what you mean. It's better not to dwell on it. Myself, I just had to separate all my emotions from the situation, otherwise I'd go crazy. I just see her as another person. If I start thinking about what we had at the start, and how things declined so rapidly, and eventually turned out, it will be impossible to cope. It's just better this way. I talk to her and her boyfriend like they're the neighbors across the street. Cordially, friendly and without emotion.
 
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