This is the thing -
God created man with opposable thumbs, intelligence, a creative mind, and a need to achieve.
Man used his gifts to design and manufacture marvelous things. Unfortunately, man was flawed, lacking in focus and direction.
So, God created woman.
She walked into the room and man's penis stood erect. She didn't pay him any attention.
Man, being creative, and horny, figured it out. He had to make something to get her attention.
It worked out.
You want something from a woman - get some tools and materials and make her something, show your butt crack, sweat .... You want to dial it up - smash a finger or get a splinter.