Yep, it's real unusual that friends and family hear news of someone they know, especially news of this type within hours of it happening.
And even more unusual that it spreads quickly.
Look, I knew Raff pretty well, this is the real thing. Personally, I don't care who believes it, during the discussion about whether to post it here or not last night, I was all for keeping you all out of the loop, precisely because of the disrespectful horseshit that's creeping into the thread, for example.
He died, I'm dealing with it, perhaps...if you don't "care" like you say, you should just keep still.
Either way, you're becoming a bit shrill.