I would have to have been on the board yesterday to post something behind a dual in your direction, Friday. I know I pull a lot of BS around here, but I'm never going to shit on someone for losing a family member.
I remember when my grandmother passed away, losing a long fight to cancer. She was here in the states when it relapsed, so she returned home in Belgium and was admitted to hospice care, and did well enough to be released. It relapsed again and she was readmitted, and to make matters worse, creditors found her. My mother flew to Belgium to see her one last time. I was at work while she was over the Atlantic and I felt my grandmother tell me that 'It's all right, my love, don't worry anymore.' And the rest of the shift really sucked that night. She passed away two hours before my mother landed in Belgium. The doctors said that the creditors finding her shocked her to death. The entire family had to go deny the inheritance.
My heart goes to you and your mother; she's in a better place now, and she'll want you, if she's anything like my grandmother, to not worry and just be yourself.