Sorry, but as Eggs said this is bullshit. There are no PM's being read by anyone and no discussion of members PM's either.
For what it's worth, I'm sorry you're getting dragged into this fake drama. It all started because some people wanted to give you an innocent, friendly accolade, and some asshole(s) decided to try and turn it into a troll.It's shady. I have no reason not to believe DS or BDM but what the hell ever.
Eggs, no one is asking you to be in denial about anything, this isn't childhood molestation for Christ's sake. You think you know something and you didn't gain that knowledge by out and out reading it in a PM, fantastic! No one is really being coy anyway but I'm not highly compelled to talk about anything personal on TK, nothing meaningful anyway.