spirituality, by the very definition of being human and all of the limitations that human perceptions entail, is individualistic. there is no way anyone could every truly show another person what they feel when they feel the way they feel when they worship.
any and all discussion as to who is right and who is wrong are moot, futile, and an exercise in frustration for all concerned.
i myself am the first priest of the church i created for myself, and there is no easy way to show you how i worship without us getting together, dropping acid and/or shrooms, and then giggling madly while we wander the back woods.
now how you fit the fact that spirituality is individualistic into an organized religion is up to you. do you parrot all of the things your preacher/priest/shaman says to you during worship, repeating them often enough to make them true in your head, or do you take the data presented by the organization and procure your own ideas and philosophies?
ultimately, the purpose of religion and spirituality is to attempt to explain the "otherness" that we all feel. the things that cannot be explained, the things that remind us we are spirit first, flesh second. we all have different connections to that other layer of reality, we should find ways to make ourselves holy before trying to do so for others.
