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Meditations of a Misguided Youth

Have you ever been stuck on a bus with a screaming child? If you have then you know.

Know what? That baby screams sound like sweet sweet music?

Edit: No wait forget I said that. That makes it look like I'm a sicko who enjoys torturing babies.
 
I always thought I would have a daughter. I had names picked out for her, I had a whole thing planned out about how it would be and how I would raise her. But then it dawned on me one day that I could have a son. Then I would not know what to do. I did not grow up around guys, I was raised by 3 woman from the time I was 8.
I think I do want kids sometime-but I don't ever want to be pregnant. Maybe someday. I don't feel it is too late to have a kid. I feel its too late to find a man worthy enough to be a father to my child.
Maybe I will have children one day-maybe I won't. I could always adopt.
 
I always thought I would have a daughter. I had names picked out for her, I had a whole thing planned out about how it would be and how I would raise her. But then it dawned on me one day that I could have a son. Then I would not know what to do. I did not grow up around guys, I was raised by 3 woman from the time I was 8.
I think I do want kids sometime-but I don't ever want to be pregnant. Maybe someday. I don't feel it is too late to have a kid. I feel its too late to find a man worthy enough to be a father to my child.
Maybe I will have children one day-maybe I won't. I could always adopt.

I was raised primarily by my mom who was sick alot and very overprotective because she was such a strict Catholic. My dad was distant/absent emotionally. And yet I have the opposite problem. I wouldn't know how to raise a girl and would prefer to have all boys.(My mom had 5 boys so the odds are pretty good genetically that I will have boys). Also I don't think its too late for you to find a man worthy enough to be a father to your child. I think I would make a worthy father to yours or any woman's child.(Once I find a decent paying job to be able to support a family financially though) I do want biological children of my own but wouldn't mind adopting.
 
I always thought I would have a daughter. I had names picked out for her, I had a whole thing planned out about how it would be and how I would raise her. But then it dawned on me one day that I could have a son. Then I would not know what to do. I did not grow up around guys, I was raised by 3 woman from the time I was 8.
I think I do want kids sometime-but I don't ever want to be pregnant. Maybe someday. I don't feel it is too late to have a kid. I feel its too late to find a man worthy enough to be a father to my child.
Maybe I will have children one day-maybe I won't. I could always adopt.

WELL FUCK YOU TOO!

*cries*
 
Wow, I must meditate in November a lot.

And Pickle really, you did not have enough children yet in this life time?
 
Having children changes everything.

And it should not be done alone. I'm not a stickler for marriage for most reasons, but I am about having children. They'll push a couple apart at times, and you need the "consequence" to hold together through those times. It takes two to raise a child because of the overwhelming influence of a parent, and the child needs balance, and even conflicting influence, that two people can provide. If they only have one example then they have issues.

I'm glad I have a son. Thank GOD I don't have a daughter. I'd be so wrapped around her finger it wouldn't be funny...plus I'd be an absentee father from the age of 10 when I had to "dispose" of her first boyfriends....
 
Boys need mothers in order to learn how to treat women.

I didn't have a mother to speak of and it took me many years to figure out how to treat woman.

I have two sons. Their mother gives them her love and doesn't take any shit. Somehow she's able avoid taking their shit in a very calm, feminine motherly way. Certainly not the way I don't take any shit. I trust her mysterious ways so I rarely interfere. Unless of course they require a heavier hand to remind to treat their mother well.
 
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