What a shame.
So, the first scene in this film is Kirk and McCoy investigating an undeveloped alien planet, while Spock tries to save them from dying to a volcano, all without violating the Prime Directive (even thought saving them is violating the prime directive), and Kirk has fucked it up and pissed off the natives. They're doing what Star Trek should be doing - seeking out new life and new civilizations - except fucking it up.
This scene is an excellent microcosm for the entire film.
So I spent most of this film thinking "This is really dumb". The pacing is all over the place, the story is too. Kirk spends most of this film being an asshole, something which Pike correctly calls him out for. But then we get a few more scenes of a character going "No Kirk don't be an asshole" and Kirk going "I'LL DO WHAT I WANT OKAY", and I just started to dislike Kirk at that point. And the thing is I don't know if the film is supposed to want me to feel like this or not, it doesn't say.
Like, the film doesn't know how seriously it wants us to take it. It's talking about terrorist attacks and Spock trying to understand death, and at the same time most of the film seems to be played for laughs. Spock's emotionless attitude - played for laughs. The Spock/Uhura relationship - played for laughs. Literally everything Scotty did in the entire film - played for laughs. Dr. McCoy and his WACKY MEDICAL GIZMOS - played for laughs.
How am I supposed to take your characters and plot seriously if the film doesn't?
But whatever, it looked pretty, the action scenes were pretty fucking dumb and Benedict Cumberbatch did some good acting.
But then he's like "Yeah I'm Khan". Sorry, what? You're Khan? You're the ASIAN CHARACTER Khan Noonian fucking Singh?! Like this isn't just a "well it doesn't match up with TOS canon canon canon" thing, this is a "casted a white actor to play what should have been a non-white role Hollywood whitewashing" thing. They couldn't make it literally any other member of the Botany Bay? Really? Fuck. FUCK.
But whatever, it was stupid but well made, whatever.
Until Kirk went into the reactor room. Fuck. You're going to do it, aren't you? You're going to take the death scene from Wrath of Khan.
See, when Spock died in Wrath of Khan it was an amazing finish to the character arcs in that film. It was about both Kirk and Spock reacting to a no-win scenario, and it was about Kirk accepting both his own mortality and the mortality of the people he commands.
When Kirk dies here, in LITERALLY THE SAME WAY, what's it for? What does it mean? Nothing, aside from "Hey remember Wrath of Khan?". They had no idea why Spock's death worked. They just redid it in a soulless, empty way. This was the point I gave up.
Then Spock went "KHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN". Fuck you. FUCK YOU. FUCK YOU. "Hey remember this over exaggerated piece of Star Trek pop culture, well here it is!!!!". FUCK. Again, a total misunderstanding of what made that moment work, and instead just a hollow repeat of it.
So the Enterprise might be destroyed, like in Star Trek III. But unlike in Star Trek III, there was really no reason for it. And also unlike Star Trek III, they don't have the balls to actually do it.
So then Spock and Sherlock have an overlong fight, and there's that shot of Kirk's body with Doctor McCoy looking at it and... oh. Fuck you. FUCK YOU.
They undo Kirk's death. Like it never happened. They totally rob any sort of meaning that his death had (which wasn't very much!). When Spock died it mattered, it meant there was a cost to Kirk's actions in the film. Here there is no cost, everything's fine, nothing matters.
So the end of the film it literally the end of the first film. They're all "Hey we're like The Original Series now, lets go explore!", exactly like the last film. Which means that no development has actually happened at all during this film. Nothing that happened mattered.
What was Kirk's arc in this film? He goes from being (rightly) totally unprepared for Command, then he dies, then...? He's okay? There's no development. The film doesn't really care at that point.
And it's such a shame. When they rebooted the franchise in the last film it meant they could go anywhere with this film. Literally anything. But they didn't. They redid things Trek has already done much better, and gave us nothing new. Bad guy. Superpower ship. Starfleet academy in danger.
Such a shame.