Morrhigan said:
Oh, I see... so you think you're manipulating her for her own good.
Nope, I'm manipulating her reactions to a given stimulus, by encouraging a preprogrammed response to the next occasion of an undesired behavior. A form of self-inflicted aversive conditioning, if you will.
Do you think it's likely she'll forget the exchange here any time soon, or is it more plausible she'll be angry for quite a while?
Do you think she'll involuntarily remember my words every time she tries to trashmouth her brother or the ex or the girlfriend or the town of Bumfuck egypt?
Now here's the $100,000 question: do you think, the next time Laker Girl catches herself trashmouthing her brother or the ex in front of the kids, that she will CONTINUE to do so just to spite me? Or will she pause long enough to stop herself?
Morrighan, it isn't about me, or Laker Girl. Never was. It isn't about being proven "right." It's about speaking up for those who may need it, when no one else seems willing or comfortable to do so. If that means I have to be the bad guy, so be it.