I know tons of people that are getting jobs now a days. In fact those same people are getting jobs, quitting them and moving on to other better jobs. That always amazes me in times like this, I think, "Wow, what a risk taker" but the fact is-there are people getting jobs!
Are there any Home Depot or Lowes where you live? Is sounds like you mostly have small family owned stores where you live, get to know somebody, do some networking.
I don't think you are lazy really, but at some point you may have to make it on your own. You are lucky you have your family, not a lot of people have that.
Here I am going to school, doing everything I can to make a living at the same time-and my family wants me to not do my homework to spend time with them. WTF. Are they going to pay my bills? No. So I have to keep doing my homework and put my friends and family on hold until school is done. I have no life, but it will get better soon.